Thanks :) You ever notice as you get older you have more and more birthdays to keep track of, your brain can't remember any of them half the time? Yeah, that'd be me so I totally understand. People here remembered, and just as importantly, remembered that I don't like to make a big deal out of my birthday. So no singing at dinner out, even if I couldn't avoid it at tai chi, and lots of nice little celebrations with different people- parents, Chali, tai chi people, art people and the museum people (lol I have *people*)

Deb, for the wedding: I know I need to have white somewhere in my dress, but I don't think the sashy thing will work with my dress so I was thinking flower(?) Do I have buy the little DB flower or can I wear a real one? Any other options I'm forgetting?

Bailey says hi (he's just about comatose next to me) My baby is turning three very soon (May 8) Oh yes and my parents are celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary the same day (!!!)